Its okay to be not okay

Little miss perfect
Carried on for too long
Thinking you can do it on your own
Heal on your own
I know they said “be strong
Oh and the books all said the same
Hide your pain little one they all seemed to scream 

See baby, 
Its okay to be not okay
When your hearts breaking
Its okay to let it all out 
Tears don’t make you weak
And what if you are breaking?
We all are a little broken
Life breaks us all

See baby,
Its okay to hurt
And Its okay to feel a little scared 
a little lonely 
Almost like a stray yet to find home
Searching for solace

See baby,
Its okay to yearn to be held while you cry into the arms of another
Okay to need a shoulder to cry on.
Perhaps if we could all come together and talk about our problems,
we might realize that this solitude is only a thing of the mind. 

               – Cassandra Ikegbune




This is a note to myself and to everyone else out there who can relate

One phrase I’ve gotten quite used to is “I’m fine”, even when I’m clearly not fine. Because sometimes shit gets so hard, med school depresses me and my personal life is a mess that I just want to curl into a ball and remain that way. This is just a reminder that its okay to not have things figured out all the time and to just not be okay



P.S – That picture wasn’t taken with this poem (if i can call it that) in mind but i thought it worked so yeah

Oh and another picture in the same setting but of me doing my ugly wide laughter -__-

Author: Cassie Daves

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