“Attitude is everything.” —Diane von
Furstenberg”
I’m sure you’re wondering about my title? We’re getting there in a teeny weeny bit.
I’ll also be announcing the giveaway winner so stay with me maybe?
The other day at the kaymu fashion hangout event while I was chit chatting with my friend and fellow blogger Kachi, a writer for pulse ng approached us asking for a style quote.
I quickly mumbled the first unoriginal line that came to my head –
“When in doubt, wear black” without giving it much thought while Kachi after some minutes of what I took as a lesson to think before talking next time said -“
Never leave home if you’re not comfortable in what you’re wearing”
I turned to her, shaking my head in disagreement while she tried to explain what she actually meant. I’m not quite sure if we finalized on that but we moved on to something else quickly anyways.
She probably didn’t mean it in this way but her statement took me back to the numerous times I had to leave home not entirely sure of what I looked like in my outfit except for what my reflection in the mirror was telling my eyes because my sisters were all off at school and I had no one to check me out to see if I was really slaying like my
mirror was telling me or if I had to wear the nude shoes, instead of the black. (Can anyone relate? Lol)
I’ll tell you one thing though, on most of those days, I wasn’t entirely comfortable with my outfit but I still left home anyways deciding to carry myself with confidence regardless!
I’ll give you a quick example : wearing pants to my final year dinner (remember that post? Check it out
here) at first I felt slightly uncomfortable because everyone else had on a gorgeous dress but did I let it make me sit back at home? NO!
In my mind’s eye, I was Solange to their Beyonce, I was going to catwalk in there and own it. Can’t touch this. Lol
Also during the Ebony life anniversary event, imagine being surrounded by all the glam queens of the nollywood/fashion industry and walking in with your not up to par clothes. Haha!
I just had to strut my stuff and walk with my head high regardless.
So what’s the moral of my story?
I guess all I’m trying to say is that its not just what you wear most times, its also how you carry yourself in what you wear! (Tweet this)
When you walk into a room with confidence, like you are sure of yourself, (even if you’re feeling some type of way inside) it will always be in your favour.
This was my outfit to the kaymu fashion hangout event (now you see how that story got us here today? Lol)
Its also another look from my capsule wardrobe picks – remember that post on making the most of your wardrobe?
I haven’t forgotten my capsule wardrobe and when I’m done wearing the outfits I put together from my selections, I’ll make it into a collage for you all to see.
I’m totally in love with this pants, I only regret not buying it in white and black also the day I found it because I wasn’t quite sure I’ll like it and didn’t want to buy all three and end up wasting my money. *sigh*
Anyways, now for the business of the day! Giveaway winners!
I’ll just like to quickly say how much I appreciate every single one of you that read my blog and leave me comments. Likeeee, you guys amaze me every single time! Thank you!
However, I noticed that most people didn’t follow the second rule – which is to subscribe on my blog and because of that, I couldn’t shortlist them for the entry.
The winner of the Ankara skirt is Chiamaka Linda (She was the only one from the skirt people that actually subscribed so I didn’t have to stress for that). If she’s unable to pick up for any reason, then the skirt goes to another person that I’ll pick on my own.
The winner of the 10k voucher (picked using the random number generator site) is Duchess of prideville.
Love your printed shirt Cassie..
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Great thoughts and quotes. Nice weekend!
You too!!
Thanks
That was an amazing thought!
Always carry yourself with confidence….so true!
Lovely blog Cassie and I also like your outfit.
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Thank you funmi
Confidence is the best outfit to rock, I mean I've seen people in cute outfits but they carry themselves in such a way that it takes away from the outfit. I love your pants, the colour and fit is amazing, it really is a shame that you did not get it in the other colours. The top pairs really nicely and the gold heels are the perfect finishing touch. I must say you look as tall as ever in these photos.
Princess Audu
A terrible shame 🙁
Oh well! I guess I can always get a tailor to just copy this one for me.
Thank you sarah, I also noticed that my height is really obvious in these pictures. The photographer did a good job
I totally agree about wearing what ever you want with confidence. Truth is everything we once thought to be 'ugly' or 'didn't go together' we now accept probably bcus we see someone else rocking the hell out of the outfit with confidence. And not just clothes, life in general… Faith it till you make it (too deep??) I love your pants/skirt. And that tweet link is a very nice improvement.
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Yaay!!!well as I didn't win,my friend did
Love today's writeup…yes to being confident. You look amazing
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You could have won but you didn't subscribe!! Lol
Thank you enkay, thank you for noticing my outfit is part of the post too! Ha ha
Thank God ooo…..I made it….Really want d skirt…So so excited!!!!
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I have emailed you, thanks for participating!
True that! a great outfit without the right carriage is as good as a piece of trash. Love your shirt.
Thank you Pat!
And yes I clicked your name! Haha
Lovely post. Attitude really is everything. I love Diane Von Furtsenberg. I know what you mean mehn. Walking around people who are wearing fabulous quality clothes while you know your clothes are not up to par as you rightly put. I just work it and carry myself with confidence. You're meant to wear the clothes, the clothes aren't meant to wear you.
Mira La Belle
I totally agree with you, this happens to me always. Like when i crochet some items and put it on. Some look at it as if it's weird, others laughed while some said i'd prefer buying cloth to Crochet dress. Well i didn't let that discourage me and i was confident to keep wearing my designs. Thanks for posting this.
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Oh, that's really lovely!
I just checked out your blog and I'm so envious of you! You're doing a great job with this crochet thing.
Have you seen the iamisigo new collection? You should check it out, its majorly crochet.
Thanks for visiting and reading!
Hahahaha, cassie please forgive me I had to begin with laughter coz its that funny. I can't relate babe, this happens all the time and the way out is confidence. I tell you, with confidence you can walk in anywhere like queen Bey with any outfit regardless of who's going to be there. Confidence is the best outfit.
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Really nice outfit.
Totally true, it's about confidence! I'm quite used to wearing more unusual stuff, I mean I wore pants to my graduation while everyone else wore a dress.
Confidence also comes from being comfortable in what you're wearing and that's easy when it's your own style and choice.
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Like seriously, you look ama-amazing in those pants..seriously, seriously..love it when you smile in your pics too 🙂
Hello Cassie,
You look lovely as always :-).
Super meaningful post, reminds me of the advice I received recently, "Have the courage to define your own standards". Amen!!!
Aaahhhh!!! I won't your pants! Lol, you looks great 🙂
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Loving your whole look!!! the top and skirt go so well together and the gold sandals add the perfect touch! you look great!
lifeisashoe
I have checked it out, i mean the iamisigo collections. Bubu is really talented, i'm inspired and i pray i become a famous Crochet designer one day. Many thanks indeed for the encouragement, i love what you do too.
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Yes babe it's all about confidence and owning it no matter what. You look stunning!
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I love how you rocked the wear with confidence. And that's a good Attitude
Thanks Cassie for coming unto my blog, this is my first blog read of yours and it's exciting already. You are a model indeed
Beautiful!