Wed-Bants

Nothing quite rubs in the fact that you are getting old like the incessant chatter about weddings or coupling up around you and when your peers start veering off into the world of marriage , then you realize that shit is getting real and soon you’ll also be expected to do the same. Couple up, I mean.

Thankfully, i’m still pretty young so no pressures around here but i can’t help but think about this “marriage craze” pattern now.Is it just the fact that i’m getting older so it’s expected that my peers couple up or people just want to feel that rock on their fourth finger? I’m not exactly sure but i diverge.

Now, I’ve been in one too many wedding dresses in the course of my modelling carrier and yeah sure sometimes i can’t help but imagine how completely beautiful and exquisite i”ll look on that day but i’ve never been one to give weddings and getting married much of a thought. Words like “too young, haven’t lived life yet, nah nah nah” pops into my head each time. Heck i didn’t even know where i”ll like to get married and what not. I know who i’ll be wearing though, that has been a constant. Yes of course, Mai Atafo silly, who else did you think? Keep your vera wang gowns, thank you! (Side eyes tiwa savage with green eyes)
So yes! Lately i’ve been thinking about weddings and marriage life thanks to my lecturers who won’t stop preaching early marriage and my friends who have gone and gotten themselves into the “till death do us part” contract. Although not so much that it can be considered a problem anyways but you know, now i’m beginning to piece together how i’ll want my wedding to look like.
Now i know i want it small, preferrably an outdoor/garden wedding but most importantly i know its not just about exchange of rings and vows. This marriage thing is deeper than that and really shouldn’t be rushed into

I heard somewhere that every girl has a wedding fantasy, true?