I was going to make this post a picture story of the time I hooked up with two of my favourite online people (who happen to also be bloggers) but I thought to chip in a few thoughts also on the beauty of having blogger buddies.
If there’s one thing I like about blogging, it’s being able to connect with people I otherwise wouldn’t have known and the sense of community like I talked about in my post on ways blogging has changed me for the better.
For someone like me, who isn’t exactly the most sociable person out there and not so good at making conversations, I’ve been fortunate to make a few personal connections with fellow bloggers in my journey.
Some that led to great collaborations like the TBC Connect event and others just a really nice friendship/having people I know I can always reach out to whenever I need honest feedback, to talk about blogging related problems or just discuss brand partnerships and of course, hook up with at events too!
It was also thanks to support from some of these people that putting together my 2016 blog planners was possible.
Having people who can relate with the struggle can never really be overstated honestly. Although they aren’t as deep as the type of friendship I talked about in this post, I’m definitely grateful for all the connections I’ve made with other bloggers both offline and online.
That being said, I finally got to meet up with Grace Alex of Gafashion. We’ve been “online friends” for a short while and it felt good finally getting to meet physically. We met at the new Cafe Neo in E-center, yaba (I did a review of Cafe Neo here) and we honestly couldn’t have picked a better spot. The staff were so receptive to us and didn’t mind at all that we had our cameras out – which is a rarity in Lagos. We bumped into Chiamaka of socialprefect blog – remember her from this post? I went on one of her legendary tours to Lekki Conservation Centre and blogged about it here!
We visited Cregital – a creative digital agency in surulere and ended up at the national stadium where we took the first few pictures in this post.
I had a really wonderful day and it didn’t feel like we were just meeting for the first time – there was no awkwardness at all.
I’m always skeptical about meeting online people off-line because I feel like It might be a bit awkward but this wasn’t. Maybe I’m mastering this social thing afterall lol.
Also, is there any blogger you’d like to meet in person?
Sharreee and let’s connect!
I've enjoyed meeting and connecting with other bloggers, you included. There's an immediate bonding that happens. I've met quite a few and have become friends with some of them – like, just random chats and checking up on each other. We may not have deep conversations all the time, but there's the opportunity for that.
I'm definitely I started blogging – it's opened up my world so much more than I could ever have imagined.
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Exactly! You took the words out of my mouth – there's definitely room for that.
It's always exciting to meet fellow bloggers! With an open mind you won't be looking for things to talk about.
I love how Grace hugged you in that photo.. She's free spirited and adorable.
Hi Social prefect I see you. Come for a tour in Calabar oh.
Kisses to you Cassie. Always slaying!
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She truly is. I think it also depends on the other person's vibes too. One thing I try to do is just act normal right from the start with the person, that way I don't leave room for any awkwardness.
The pictures are so nice. Shows you guys really clicked and had a good time.
I've made some really cool friends via blogging some I'm yet to meet some I've met and there was no awkwardness. I think it's cos we were being ourselves and all plus location on where the "meeting" takes place matters I think.
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Cassie! Keep It Up! You have a beautiful Blog Btw!
Thank you so much Ayo!
Hi Cassie, nice post. Im a blogger and i'll like to meet ya!
Eyah, Love the picture where Amaka is trying to carry Grace, her daisy earrings are soooo cute.
I definitely love having Blogger Friends like you, Berry, Tosin, Mide, Desola, Kachee, Ekene and many others.
Love the fact that we can rub minds on different Blogging issues and get different perspectives on various matters.
It's always nice to finally meet a Blogger/IG friend.
Looking forward to seeing the Style Post.
It's a nice vintage look.
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I think having blogger friends are really important. It's good to have people to inspire you, and encourage you, esp when they understand what exactly it is you do. Spoke about it sort of in the post below. ps: Lovely photos!
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Nice post… Blogging is great for connecting people of like minds. I have some in mind to visit but haven't gotten the time to do so. We keep postponing because of work in our different offices. Bloggers are now my new sets of friends i just included in my directory, lool.
Good to see read about your fun and you ALL LOOK GOOD.
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I'm usually very shy around people and I think blogging is beginning to change that. I haven't particularly met with a lot of bloggers (I think 3 who are really awesome BTW ) because of where I school but I hope that changes soon. I really love how the pictures portray how comfortable you guys are around yourselves.
It was lovely meeting you! I want to meet dee and desire and to avoid awkward moment people just have to try to be themselves
I'm glad I've met a few bloggers, I wouldn't say I've established friendships but, I've established relationships so that's a start. I think meeting people online and meeting them offline is about keeping an open mind and not giving out too much personality just at once because not everyone can take it (this is what I'm working on)
I have not really tried to make blogger friends but lately, i have been thinking about collaborations… now to create the time!
I really when bloggers become friends not just on social media. This Is real, grace comes off as a cool kid. I can't wait to meet y'all oneday
I am still e-friends with a lot of bloggers and I am terribly not sociable as well.
Cassie I love you work and all. I have never met any blogger but I will love to meet as many as possible.I have only one blogger friend Kene Kingsley but we have never seen/met each other.
Thank you so much Habiba! I'm checking out your blog now.
I know Kene and he's definitely a nice person
I have actually been expecting this post because I saw hints from your story a while back. The blogosphere is a whole new world I must say, I'm loving the horizon blogging has opened me up to. This week is just the best week in the year to meet new bloggers and make new friends… I'm looking forward to it
I wasted a bit of time in writing it 🙈🙈🙈 Thank you for anticipating! Always feels good when someone tells me that were awaiting a post 💃💃
It definitely is oh! I take it this means you're going to be at fashion week?
The pictures are so nice!!! Having blogger friends is definitely essential. I think I made more this year compared to previous years and honestly can't wait to meet them all 😭
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Awww. I hope you all get to meet pretty soon!
The pictures are xo cute and i like Grace's spirited reactions!
As for me, I might also try to act normal if i met an online buddy offline but this kind of meeting are memories, so its okay to act a little bit awkward to make an impression;)
Undoubtedly, y'all have a wonderful time as i can see that!
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Lool acting awkward to make an impression? That's new! Or maybe I'm misunderstanding you. Thank you for reading and leaving a comment, I appreciateeee and yes! We had a wonderful time 😆😆
Love the vibes of these photos.. I've made some really awesome online friends since I started my own blog and have met a few of them (including Social Prefect). I definitely like the idea.
Thank You Amara! It seems like blogging has definitely been majorly positive for everyone.
awww. beautiful!
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Lovely photos!
Y'all look like you were having soo much fun!
Cute photos; you guys look like you have known each other forever.
You guys look like you really hit it off. Blogging is a great community to meet new people. I'm glad I started blogging again.
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Lovely Pictures, Beautiful Smiles and Intelligent Minds too! :). It's always nice reading your blogposts, even though I rarely comment (which I've just repented of. lol). Talking about blogger friends, I have just one, who isn't even from Africa, talk less of Nigeria. Can be boring sometimes… but I'd really love to make friends with Nigerians in the blogosphere, but how do I even go about it Cassie? 🙁
Aww this is awesome. I'd love to meet you and other bloggers fr. But I'm currently not in Nigeria. My goal is to collab with at least 10 bloggers when I come back for the Holidays. I think it's so much fun and Networking can never hurt. I love your blog and I just like grace says, be yourself from the beginning. I'm an introvert so this might be a challenge. But we'll see how it goes.
Lovely post! Its always good to be in contact with fellow bloggers to share tips and ideas! Great pictures too!
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So inspiring! Unfortunately I haven't met anyone yet, but who knows, maybe one day!
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I couldn't help but notice you had 2 bags on, is there any particular reason why? Or it's just styling?
I haven't met anyone, as I have just started blogging….but I'd love to meet you and Grace Alex tho….
awesome
Connections offline is really the best – you learn and share ideas; I've met a few people after starting blogging, it has helped me with my journey too.
This is so true! The connections you gain are so important and these women/men are always so nice and welcoming! Great post!
So inspiring, unfortunately i’m still yet to have a blogger friend but i know very soon i’ll get to connect with a lot of bloggers
Interesting! Grace seems like a really fun person!
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